20 s dating
Though love is crucial to a healthy relationship, when you’re dating in your 30s you know love is not enough.If you are going to be with a significant other for any length of time you will need someone who wants to work with your quirks and shortcomings.The reason my mom pushed me to do this anyway is because she found the love of her life online, and is still with him today. It is definitely possible, but to me, now it isn't. But what the hell, I had nothing to loose and I was living somewhere where no one knew me.So on I went, looking up the most suitable social media dating sites, just advertising myself and throwing myself in the gauntlet of online dating. I was getting over 100 emails a day from the most random and creepy people. I took the opportunity that some decent guys offered me and I actually went on dates with people from the Internet.I did my research and it seemed like the cool thing to do was, at 23 years old, go on Ok Cupid. I put a few pictures up, answered all those ridiculous questions and I just waited until I got a bite. I won't say that they were all creepy; there were few hopefuls but it felt like all these dudes in my age demographic was using these sites to essentially get people in bed. I still felt really weird about it but I really had nothing to lose, maybe except my life, because who the heck knows who these people really are any way. I went on three dates with three different dudes and went 0 for 3.It was less embarrassing than going on others and full committing and paying a monthly fee. Ladies, I shouldn't have to say this because you should already know this, but if you are going on an online date you need to meet in a public setting and have your friend on speed dial just in case you have to get out of there! The first was a disappointment where as he just thought I was hot and didn't care what I had to say.
However, as we age, we tend to crave contrasting things.Now, you are more likely looking for someone with similar goals so your relationship can get you somewhere.