Dating a persian women
American men will rush to get you in bed as quick as possible, while European men don’t appear to have the same rush (or desperation). European men don’t ‘date’ – in the formal way that Americans are used to.The types of dates seen in movies – the formal ask, the fancy dinner and the entire dance that ensues simply doesn’t exist in the European mindset, in fact, the word “dating” isn’t even a part of their lexicon. Unlike American culture, where there’s almost a rite of passage which takes two people from “hooking up” to “seeing each other” to “dating” to “exclusive”, these labels just aren’t a focus or concern for European men. Rather, the mentality is, “I like you, I want to see you, and if it’s enjoyable, let’s keep seeing each other”.We must take a look at who we are drawn to in the first place, and why.If you keep attracting (and are attracted to) men who are emotionally unavailable and who treat you poorly, then it really doesn’t matter if your dating prospects are from France, New York, Vancouver or Mars – the shift needs to occur within you first and foremost.In America, sexual education is not taught until one hits their teens, if they are taught at all. It’s no surprise that American men are left to their own devices, subconsciously learning about sex through porn and the media. The latest law passed in France where excessively skinny models need to prove their health is a testament to that.But when you’re surrounded by American media, filled with Barbie dolls, waif skinny models and Baywatch breasts, the idea of what ‘beauty’ is becomes skewed. European men have a quiet confidence, a demeanor that doesn’t need to scream out loud to prove themselves. The dating culture involves trying out many different options at the same time.That bieng said not all persian girls are about wealth, but a lot do have high standards when it comes to their significant otherbased on your personal experience. This can come from countless circumstances - but they are not the Persian women who would never leave their home ... I do believe that most Iranian chicks are high maintenance.As a Persian woman on the west coast I don't believe that blanket statement is fair, and even if it were it might be due to other factors like the higher cost of city living in California, where most Persians are concentrated. I don't think it's fair to draw conclusions about a whole group from just your personal experience. who have no patience or desire to learn English - and really don't care much about anything outside their social circle full of daily activities related to a culture ancient , glorious and deep. Just the love and drama of friendship , love and spirituality in a expression westerners rarely can relate to. Biggest reason for this is that most of them are used to nice things because their husbands and fathers have always had good paying jobs.
Perhaps this has to do with their upbringing, where it’s very normal for boys and girls to play and intermingle together.
Of course this behavior is going to require some support for it to be sustainable. And if they are high-maintenance, don't bother the rest of us about them. Persians in Australia , Germany or Canada or USA are not a good representation of Persian women.
As a persian male who moved to san diego and met persian girls from both coasts of the US, they're definitely a lot more materialistic persian girls on the west than on the east. They are examples of Persians who had means and desire to leave Iran.
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Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. That bitchy Pegah girl who attends every ' Iranian Disco Night' will get a lot more attention and will exemplify much of the diva-Persian-girl stereotype than Mona, the less than flashy simple girl who lives with her parents and doesn't open up as much. As a Persian woman in her twenties, I am offended by this question. I don't fit any of the stereotypes described on this page (except for Iran RPCV's description, which I don't think is culture-specific), and I don't see any positive that comes from this question.