Intp dating infj
Because my husband is less emotionally afflicted than me, he can be unaware of how someone might receive something he says.I’ve taught him to filter his thoughts a little better as to avoid hurting others whenever possible.Of course these are generalizations, something personality theory as a whole is subject to.I’ve also read that the intuitive bond between an INFJ and INTJ is nearly instantaneous, something I can certainly attest to.He was in a previous relationship with someone who enjoyed socializing regularly, and he describes this as a source of constant struggle between them.He wanted to stay home most of the time, so she accused him of being boring.I am an INFJ who only discovered my type a year ago, but I haven’t been able to read enough about personality theory since.
At least in my experience, these two types are well-matched in strength of will, self-reliance, intellect, and intuition (though the INFJ probably has it there).I think it was this that got my attention when I met my husband: he was self-assured, intelligent, wonderfully sarcastic, and aloof.I had never met someone so much like me, but with more confidence.The problem lies in the fact that the INFJ can ‘see’ past the things the INTJ can’t, most often with little proof.
That will be an issue for the INTJ – if it can’t be seen or touched or proven, it may as well not exist.
My emotional sensitivity wears me down at times, but my husband teaches me to separate myself from the emotions of others.