These are dating rules lyrics
You don’t need to take her out for a lavish dinner or buy her gold jewelry to show her you care.
But not only has research shown that holding hands can foster intimacy, some studies have indicated that this simple gesture even has the ability to alleviate physical pain. In his seminars with women, dating coach Matthew Hussey talks about how, back in the Victorian era, women who saw a man they were interested in while on a stroll through the park would literally “drop their handkerchief” in order to invite him to pick it up and engage in conversation.
It’s extremely unpopular these days to have gendered events, and people always laugh at the old days, when men used to retire to the parlor after dinner to smoke cigars and play cards and talk about man stuff, and women would be left to (presumably) gossip with their female friends.